
Welcome to the Dollhouse (1996)
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He made his first feature for a studio, lost control of it, and hated the result so much he spent years telling people not to watch it. "I'm asking you, as my friend, don't rent it, don't try to see it."
Todd Solondz left the business - or as he has put it, it left him - and took a job teaching English to Russian immigrants in New York.
Six years later, a lawyer friend offered to help fund whatever he wanted to make. He made WELCOME TO THE DOLLHOUSE (1995), the most merciless film ever made about being twelve.
Dawn Wiener is a seventh grader in New Jersey. Her classmates torment her, her mother prefers her little sister, her father barely registers her.
What makes it great is that the film will not let her be lovable. Dawn is awkward, sullen, and sometimes cruel herself, and Solondz refuses to pretend otherwise. The character was later featured (with different actresses and alternating timelines) in his subsequent films Palindromes (2004) and Wiener-Dog (2016).
Welcome to the Dollhouse won the Grand Jury Prize at Sundance in 1996.
(TIL that Heather Matarazzo is married to Heather Turman, and that Gaten Matarazzo's mother is also named Heather. Which reminds me, I really need to do a post on Heathers.)
About the Film
Not all girls want to play with dolls.
- Directed By
- Todd Solondz
- Runtime
- 88 minutes
- Released
- March 22, 1996
- Certification
- R
- Country
- United States of America
- Starring
- Heather Matarazzo, Brendan Sexton III, Eric Mabius, Matthew Faber, Daria Kalinina
More Credits
- Genres
- Comedy, Drama
- Language
- English
- Origin
- US
- Studios
- Suburban Pictures
- Written By
- Todd Solondz
- Produced By
- Todd Solondz, Donna L. Bascom
- Cinematography
- Randy Drummond
- Music
- Jill Wisoff
- Also Starring
- Angela Pietropinto, Bill Buell, Will Lyman, Rica Martens, Stacey Moseley
- Budget
- $800,000
- Box Office
- $5,034,794
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Sheila McClear “I’m sorry, I don’t mean to be a cunt”. I finally saw this film. So good.
One of my favourites.
Grew up loving this film 😀
There’s no Napoleon Dynamite without Todd Solondz.
Ok, but let’s not blame him for that
Napoleon Dynamite is Shit.
I loved ‘Happiness’.
Celeste Finn yikes, that was a hard watch. Never again
Nicole Bavis not a good first date movie
David Gurney the beginning is so good and innocent and then BOOM
Celeste Finn (whispers) I love it too, but that’s a hard one to broadcast that you love. 🙂
Brian Schulte let’s stick together, weirdo.
Celeste Finn My favorite film.
just the cold open alone is on a level I have yet to see another film match
Celeste Finn you’re shit and I’m champagne!
My friends and I saw this in the theater on LSD. We laughed our asses off. The rest of the theater was dead silent.
Celeste Finn “Happiness” is a truly fantastic film, but hard to “love” exactly, given the subject matter. Greatly appreciate the fine and nuanced storytelling, yes, but it left me traumatized.
Christine LeBel I loved the craft behind that film. I didn’t have fun watching it.
I looovvveee this movie!
You think you’re hot shit, but you’re really just cold diarrhea.
Josiah Barnett yes!!!! That’s what I commented…it’s one of the best movie lines of all time 😂😂
I still randomly quote this goldie
Amy Simmons our jam 🫶
Benny Roberts Spinelli yes it is lmao love this movie!
Anywhere But Hollywood this isn’t on Criterion yet?!
It really should be!
“You think you’re hot shit but you’re really cold diarrhea”
What was the Hollywood film that screwed him over? Happiness?
Tony Young It was this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWPSSSaGB-8&t=2s
Anywhere But Hollywood I almost worked non union background, but it was cancelled.
Anywhere But Hollywood Woody Allen fanfic
Tony Young just awful
Sam Lessin
Dawn was quite lovable. I felt awful for her – the fact she isn’t a perfect victim didn’t register. Also, I wonder if Solondz’s experience teaching English to immigrants informed the scenes in “Happiness” when Joy is teaching English.
Amanda Bee Yes, I actually agree with you. It would probably be more accurate to say Solondz never softens her character or otherwise compromises in order to make her lovable.
Right – he didn’t make her some angelic child being tortured by mean kids. She was a regular kid enduring abuse from other kids and a complete lack of sympathy from adults. And she took her frustrations out by bullying younger/smaller kids in similar ways, which is very realistic.
Amanda Bee They did except Solondz said he really enjoyed teaching.
William Shaw he didn’t get seduced by a Russian dude who loved New Jersey
Amanda Bee I mean, I’d saw the heads off my little sister’s Barbies too if my family treated me that way.
Amanda Bee “Joy” was such a deliberate misnomer for that terrible woman.
Yes Heather’s is a masterpiece too!!
Tallulah Belulah Dahling
Leonardo Casas
One of my favorite films of all time
Hey uhlee 😂😂😂
Man this movie is messed up.
Vagina Wig and Boys Don’t Cry
I saw this movie probably way too young but it stuck with me for sure. I appreciate the unflinching look at the awkward girlhood of that age.
Hope she’s doing better now….a few years ago, she was talking about how she was near poverty and considering suicide.
William Shaw who Dawn? Can’t think if the actress name
It’s at the end of the article—Heather Matarazzo.
Anywhere But Hollywood I’m surprised Criterion hasn’t released any Solondz films
William Shaw I found his films free on Tubi. I don’t know if this one is but they have a bunch of other ones.
William Shaw there are two, Happiness and Life During Wartime
Happiness was a one watch flick, disturbing in the worst way. I’d rather watch salo again.
“Special people” means retards. Your club is for retards.
Apparently there’s a fucking sequel called weiner dog that I never knew about until a few months ago. Keep meaning to watch it thanks for reminding me
What was the first film that he “lost control of”?
Superstar, right? The unauthorized Karen Carpenter movie with Barbie dolls.
Erin Grooms I love that movie so much, tho. I would love even more to see the version that Todd intended to make.
Erin Grooms That’s by Todd Haynes.
I have never not gotten those two mixed up.
Erin Grooms I have learnt something today: I straight up thought they were the same guy! 😂
Carmen Ramirez McFarlin Todd was going to remake Superstar?
Woo! I’m so glad @Selwyn pointed that out! Two very talented Todds!
Ethan Nahte Noooo, I just got too excited at someone mentioning Superstar. And then I was like, wait…I don’t remember any of these other movies being made by Todd Haynes!
Jesse Trzciński It was this: https://youtu.be/eWPSSSaGB-8?si=L3B0_ANmIHT7k9fB
Dawn is dead In palindromes
Is that fucking Warren?
Telly from KIDS is in it too
Bonnie Stone Telly wasn’t In Welcome to the Dollhouse
Bonnie Stone that was not Telly…
I always thought Brandon was Telly? It’s been awhile since I saw it… he looks just like him. But now that you mention it, Telly was probably older when this was filmed.
Grace Elizabeth
Sad that this movie only gets a 7.3 on IMDB. But, if everyone got it, I guess it wouldn’t be so good.
Jason Proksch That’s still a pretty good number for IMDB.
“Because…you’re ugly.”
Todd summed up how horrible the average junior high experience is for girls who aren’t attractive. I should know. I lived it.
Holy shit seventh grade was a living hell for me.
Jenn McCranie same here. Quiet, braces,and acne. Easy target 🎯
Jeannine Anderson Glasses, braces, Walmart clothes, and overall gawkiness. Not to mention having my ass kicked by puberty so bad that daily showering and Secret couldn’t tame my B.O. (which I was unable to smell so I was really confused). Didn’t help that I played clarinet in the band, not to mention the fact that I was a blue collar kid going to private school that one year.
Bullies are horrible, and NO excuse for the way you were treated you!!
Sean Wright Neeley So did I, but it took me until adulthood to appreciate the film.
I was attractive and treated the same way for being weird.
The girl who gets that label usually gets that label because she is mean, too, which is shown in the movie. When I was that age I was a small geek and I felt bad for this girl whose last name was Hotte, pronounced Hut, as in Jabba the Hutt. She was fat, pimply and had balls of frizz on her head like Brillo Pads. She was known as “The Ugliest Girl In School.” In every school I went to there was always one. When I tried to be nice to her, she was so mean. I realized that she hated herself so much that she hated anyone who was nice to her. Years later, she had two kids and was happily married and apologized to everyone for being so mean and she seemed very sweet and sincere. Sometimes it’s not about what’s on the outside.
I had a fat, mean bully too. She was unbelievably cruel. We became friends in 4th grade though after 2 years of her tormenting me.
I had the same experience with getting no support from my parents. I will be on antidepressants for the rest of my life.
Grade school was cruel to me from the 4th up to 8th grade, I was living so much in the dark that I contemplated s****** sometimes when my parents choose to ignore me, telling me to stop showing off and deal with it instead of trying to help me go to therapy to let my fears out of my system instead of burying it deep and eat me inside out, and then they wonder why I’m still shy and doubtful of people as a 39 year old. After my 8th grade graduation, I felt free from my torment and flourished during my high school years with good grades and being in the honor roll, good times!!!
Same here. So so brutal! I wasn’t pretty and I was super awkward. Thank god I laugh about it now and can cry myself to sleep😆
Sean Wright Neeley It was hell for anyone who was different. I was quiet, shy, bookish, & briefly a child model. The mean girls called me ugly & other epithets so often that I believed them. This movie really gets it.
You are attractive.
That’s sweet but I wasn’t then.
Worst years of my life
Indeed. It’s that way for many kids. And then you grow up and it gets a little better, but you also discover there is a whole swath of people who want to make sure life is like junior high for the rest of everyone’s life.
Stumbled onto this one late at night on Showtime or something in the early-mid 00’s, and loved it. I was only a few years out of junior high, so it hit in a way that I probably can’t replicate rewatching it now. That’s one of those double edged swords with art that you find at the perfect time.
In the US on Tubi for free with ads.
I love this movie!!!
I was 12 in ’95, I loved it
It’s on Tubi. I’m watching it tonight!
Top 10
A great film
Brendan Sexton III has a fan page on here if you want to follow his current work.
I was 14 when I saw it, and I just loved every bit of it. It was strange that the movie sort of “got it.”
I was bullied like that girl
Jetaime Dubois same. I first saw this movie in 1999 and sobbed. It’s one of the few VHS I still have.
Jetaime Dubois me too. I felt so less alone when I came across it.
Junior High sucks.
A great movie, dark comedy at its best.
Great movie
I got a blow up doll and it looks like you pretty girl
I Assistant Directed this movie and it was a lot of fun to make. You could never do something like this now but it was during the indy revolution of the 90’s and art pieces like this were not only tolerated but highly valued.
Chad Braden one of the greatest eras of film since the 70s.
Chad Braden 🙌🙏
I would have been a member of the special people’s club.
She actually isn’t even ugly. Just remove the glasses. She looks like any other 12 year old should. I actually thought Brandon’s girlfriend was ugly.
I love this movie. There’s a bit of Dawn in all of us.
Susi Wood amen!!!
The best, filmed in my hometown of West Caldwell NJ
My friends house was used for her house
The 7-11 where they talked about the h job is still there
Plus they filmed in my Middle School and HS
Nikki Imperial-Dillon
Horrible movie.
I loved this movie.
Any time Heather crosses my path I think of this amazing film. 🫶🏽
Story of my life
Amazing little movie ! Heather was amazing in this, wishe she had done more
Is that guy “Warren” from Empire Records?
Jeff Spicolli yes
👊🏼
His film “Storytelling” is even more challenging.
Welcome To The Dollhouse and Happiness are Solondz devastating masterpieces.
Justin Addeo What about Palindromes?
Urban Dahlberg haven’t seen it yet. I know, I know. I am behind. I did see Story Telling though.
Wanna see my fingers?
🎶I got a blow up doll and she looks like you (oh little girl)🎶
I love this movie.
Brendan Sexton iii is one of the best young actors we have ever been blessed with. All of his work was incredible…this, empire records, pecker and even more recent stuff like the killing. He is great.
Jay MW loved him in Empire Records
Sony Pictures Classics was into a strategy they called counterprogramming and very much on purpose opened the movie July 4th weekend opposite the only other new movie INDEPENDENCE DAY
I remember this film
An unusual story teller and I saw his following films as well and they were more unsettling.
I was 11 when this came out and I remember begging my mom to let me watch it but she said it looked too weird. I finally managed to finagle a copy a year or so later and I have been in love with Dawn Wiener and Todd Solondz ever since
Great film, the sequel sucked!
Alex Entelis I didn’t like it either
This film is so good. My childhood was very similar only i didnt have siblings and I was just as ignored.
Is that Warren Beatty?
Is that Warren?
Sandra Vgz omg it is Warren! It’s been years since I’ve seen Welcome to the Dollhouse. I’ve seen Empire Records way more. Just watched it not long ago.
Sandra Vgz His name isn’t F-ING Warren!
It is truly one of my favorite films .
I watched this again within the last few years and it was still fantastically uncomfortable—yet still couldn’t prepare us for where Solondz would go with his next film.
Brendan Sexton’s haircut.
Michael Vasquez omg remember this movie?!
Pri omg didn’t she try to give it up to that bully kid but he backed out fucking crazy ass movie
Never heard someone ever getting bullied into taking a shit
This is such a great movie. I love Todd Solondz.
I remember renting this in the mid 90s. Excellent movie.
Amanda Rosner
I love the scene where Dawn asks her brother if things ever got better and he basically says, “Not really.” Ouch and 😂, so true.
Susan Grant Yeah! I like that scene because it’s honest and true.
Dawn: Mark, is eight grade better than seventh?
Mark: All of junior high school sucks. High school’s better. It’s closer to college. They’ll call you names, but not as much to your face.
That was pretty much my junior high/high school experience.
I love this movie!
The song “Sweet Candy” is one of my favorite songs of all time!
One of my Solondz’ favs, along with Happiness and Palindromes. LOVE Dawn “wiener dog” 🩷
His name’s not Warren
Christopher Sullivan …Who cares, it’s Rex Manning Day! 😁
Christopher Sullivan i thought his name was Warren?
Christopher Sullivan rap, metal, rap, metal, Whitney Houston..?
Oh thank you for remembering of this movie!
Very very interesting!I watched this somewhere in the the 90’s it had me so conflicted.Poor girl.It was deep.
I couldn’t watch it. I was bullied like that in school. I got through 15 seconds of the lunchroom scene and had to turn away
Good One
I forgot about Brendan Sexton being in this. The scariest role he played was in ‘Boys Don’t Cry’.
Sexton was also great in this. What a debut film!
Quit grade grubbing! Don’t you have any dignity?!
I was living in Oslo at the time this one came out, working too much and drinking too much…but on rare night off, I went to see Welcome to the Dollhouse AND Kids…you now, too maximise my night off…I was blown away by both movies, and totally bombed mentally for days…I learned my lesson, only 1 good movie per day…
“It was me-ant to be a jowk!” -The Devil’s Advocate”
SUCH a brilliant film! One of my faves ❤️
One of my favorites!
3 pm
Rape!
This movie is Awesome Sauce
Big Sleeper
I watch in late 90’s on a Brazilian TV at midnight! Great movie!
I never connected that she was Dustin from Stranger Things’ mom….I never tried but still lol
Ethal Michelle That’s the thing. She’s actually not related! So many Heathers…
Anywhere But Hollywood when I google her, a pic of them together is like the first thing that pops up 🤣🤣🤣 how misleading …and that last name is so unique…
That’s Warren Beatty!!
The special peoples club!!!! I Loved this movie lol!!!
I don’t want to go to Disney World.”
Don’t be stupid. If nothing else, it’ll look good on your college résumé.”
Warren?
What was the first film he did that he lost control of?
That was such a messed up movie 🎥
That’s Warren Beatty!
Such a great film. Dawn making fish sticks is priceless.
I still think about this movie. Loved it.
GREAT FILM, 👍 👌 👍 👌 a constant rewatch
” ITS OUR 20TH. “
Didn’t like this film when it came out.
I’ve sense found new appreciation for it. It’s truly an amazing film.
I was driving to my aunties house on LI in 1999 & heather & a group of girlfriends pulled up next to me at the light . Having seen & owning WTTD ( I never returned it to Blockbuster ) I knew exactly who she was & said I LOVE YOU DAWN WEINER! She said who are you back to me & I drove away .
Great movie!
He wants to work at a record store
Anneke Warchuck 🥰
Katherine Peery 😘
Most movies about growing up as a child are seen as idyllic or an idealized youth through the prism of an adult. This film is an uncomfortable watch because this is closer to what growing is actually like.
Where can I watch?
He was amazing in this. He broke my heart a little.
I went to see this at the theater when it came out.
Back when there were theaters, back when theaters actually screened independent films. Lost times.
My brother and I sat elsewhere from my mother and her friends when we saw this. We laughed OUR ASSES OFF. Afterwards they were surprised we found it amusing… they were like this was sad! I was like welcome to junior high life in most of America.
Such a good movie, but all of Todd’s stuff is amazing!
I was almost 30 when I saw this and it still hit hard.
Fear, Anxiety and Depression is still pretty fucking great!
Love it ❤️
You think you’re hot shit, but you’re really cool diarrhea -my all time favorite line from a movie.
Palindromes disturbed me. I hadn’t seen the other movies, but I was a barista and a man whom resembled the truck driver started coming into my cafe. I would hide and make someone else help him when I saw him coming in. One day, I decided it was unfair to run from him every time he pulled up in the parking lot, so I stayed and took his order… he creeped me out even more.
This put me in the head space of “Napoleon Dynamite” both films, slow paced but could watch them again and again. Honestly this character could of easily been ND’s lil sister.
You didn’t come in here to wash your hands.. yes I did… Noooo you came in here.. to shit.. now shit…with the door open …why do you hate me… Because your ugly 😭😭😭😵💫
It so perfectly captures the horrors of middle school. Everyone is miserable and inflicting misery.
We quote this movie all these years later
Best line- Do you want to see my fingers?
He then made “Happiness,” the kind of movie you watch exactly once, if that.
Love this movie.
Please do a post on Heathers! 😍
I love this movie!
Extremely depressing.
Love this & Happiness!!
“Maybe I will sell drugs now”
His name isn’t Warren?
When this came out, I was working at a small town video rental store. I was lucky enough to score a pre-release copy and a poster. My best friend and I were geeky misfits and we watched this movie over and over and over for years. “Are you going to rape me yet?” — really stood out to us.
Rented this and Spanking the Monkey the same day. That was a bizarre viewing with my friends.
Aaron Errette Honestly, a lot of great indy stuff in the 1990s.
Aaron Errette core memory unlocked 🔓
Aaron Errette Oh! I forgot that one!
I loved Welcome to the Dollhouse
It’s a 10 out of 10 movie. It’s really hard to watch though.
I had such a crush on Brendan and that says way too much about me.
Amy Baxter Eeeeek!
Ethan Nahte yeah I was a Dawn Weiner I guess 😅
Loved this movie. 💙
Todd’s not for everybody but I find his films genius, insightful, bittersweet and beautiful. Like Michael Kenneth Williams said…he tries to find the humanity in deplorable people (paraphrasing).
Correction: Dawn Wiener’s character was referenced in Palindromes, but it was her cousin, Aviva that was featured with different actors throughout that film.
Welcome to the Dollhouse has a special place in my heart. I had a weird and negative 7th grade experience and Dawn, with her long, brown hair, glasses and awkward social skills was very similar to my own, but hers being a bit more brutal and exaggerated.
With Dawn’s home life, her parents were straight up assholes and enablers of their other two children’s crappy behavior. Obvious, Harv and Marj Wiener paid a price when they threw all of their love at Missy Wiener, their youngest daughter. By the time Palindrome’s existed, from what I gathered, her character became spoiled, cruel, and just an overall manipulative and aweful person, based on her actions against Mark in that sequel.
I don’t want to spoil what happens in Palindromes (awful movie by the way), but…the story in the pseudo sequel, Wiener Dog (also a pretty bad film) featuring Dawn and Brandon is actually pretty good and I would consider a parallel universe to Palindromes. The rest of that film…eh….I didn’t like it.
Either way, Dawn Wiener’s character is pretty realistic and relatable in many ways in Welcome to the Dollhouse.
Damnn I forgot buddy from Boys don’t cry was in this flick!
I need to rewatch it.
Fear, Anxiety and Depression is a masterpiece.
I own the DVD!
A good but very harsh movie. some very hard to watch parts.
I hated this movie. It’s sooo painfully slow and boring
This was my favorite movie growing up
I loved that movie. It hit home. 🏠 saw it when it came out.
This movie & my timeline ❤️ perfect movie at the perfect age, I was 12. And, Brendan Sexton pulled my interests out of childhood and thrust them into adolescence. F*** I had the biggest junior high crush on that dude. I had this repeat fantasy in 1995 or 96 of a sleepover with him & Devon Sawa where we would rent “Die Hard With A Vengeance” from Blockbuster, watch Beavis & Butthead while eating Taco Bell, put in the movie, and then play Truth or Dare, but its all dares. In my later teens, I discovered that the entire time, Heather Matarazzo lived in the next town over, and my grandfather knew her family. In my early 20s I finally got to meet her, and she was so sweet and tolerant of my starry eyed fanboy introduction that I loved her even more💕
I loveeeeee this movie! I watch it all the time!
I absolutely adore this film and had this sign made for my she-shed.
Its a very good film. I heard about it via film director John Waters, said that he loved it.
“You think you’re hot sh*t, but you’re just cold diarrhea!” 🤣
Great great movie!!!
WIENER DOG
In my top 10. I love this movie.
I love this movie… it’s “Heathers” good🖤
Heather is Gaten’s Mom, from Stranger things??? No shite….WOW, that’s a great surprise. And it’s amazing to see them both lean into their quote, end quote, weirdness it’s what makes them so likable, and they’re both extremely talented.That’s pretty awesome. For the record, I have friends that we’re married to each other.Sadly, one passed away, but they were both.Named Melissa Mccarthy…RIP MISS MELISSA xoxoo